The female mind has always been a complete mystery to most men and their enigmatic thoughts and actions almost impossible to decode¹ - until now.

女人的心思对大多数男人而言总是那么深不可测，直到现在女人们谜一般的想法和行为还是令人费解。

Finally the closely-held secret of whether a woman fancies someone has been exposed and experts have found it is all in the eyes.

A new study looked at how and where women glance after a man makes initial eye contact and found this shows him all he needs to know about his chances of romance.

What happens in the 45 seconds after meeting makes it crystal clear if love is in the air or whether the hapless male suitor will get the cold shoulder, experts have said.

Life coach Ali Campbell says in his book 'More than Just Sex' that the look men want to see is her looking down and then moving her eyes in a sweeping² motion across the floor because it almost certainly means that she is attracted to you.

This glance means that she is checking her internal emotions, in short, she likes you but is working out how much.

And in a complete reversal（逆转） the disinterested³, shy or bashful（害羞的） look sideways a woman often gives is not the brush-off most men thought it was.

It is in fact the opposite.

If a woman looks away for up to 45 seconds and then stares you straight in the eye it is another sure sign that she is interested because she is thinking hard about whether you are a suitable partner.

If after the man makes eye contact she instantly looks over his head or stares straight back at him it is almost certainly curtains.

Also if she touches her hair she is attracted to you and if she twirls the ends then she really likes you.