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DON'T MOVE TOO FAST 
 
It can be tempting1 to want to blow through the honeymoon2 stage and quickly settle into a comfortable routine or worse, do something drastic like move in together too soon. 
 
But wanting to spend every second together could be the death knell3 for your partner - so don't drop your whole life for them. 
 
Make sure to spend a few nights alone, continue to make time for the things you love and still go out with your friends. 
 
It's important to retain a little mystery to keep things exciting, says Meredith Fineman, founder4 of Fifty First (J)Dates. 
 
DON'T ASSUME THEY'RE PERFECT 
 
In the early days of a new relationship, you always try a little - or a lot - harder to impress your new partner. 
 
But don't expect that they will maintain those standards and give the relationship a bit more time before deciding if they're the one. 
 
Kate Figes, author of books including 'Couples: How We Make Love Last', says it's important to understand and accept that your new partner isn't infallible. 
 
DON'T BE POSSESSIVE 
 
Clinginess is always a turn-off. 
 
Just because you're newly dating doesn't mean your partner is obligated to spend all their time with you. 
 
Expecting (or demanding) too much of their time could signal to them that you're not compatible or that you don't trust them. 
 
DON'T AVOID SERIOUS DISCUSSIONS 
 
Don't avoid talking about your long-term goals and ambitions: Do you want to get married? Do you want kids? 
 
They don't need to happen on the very first date, but shouldn't be avoided for too long. 
 
DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR EXES CONSTANTLY
 
Talking about past relationships is often unavoidable, but in the early stages of a new one, it can do some serious damage. 
 
Not only could it suggest that you're not over your ex, it could also make you or your new partner draw comparisons. 
 
Heather and Eric Viets, who both have Master's degrees in Marriage and Family Therapy and run Preengaged.com, both agree that discussing past relationships is a major turn-off in a new one. 
 
DON'T LIE 
 
Honesty is always the best policy and a new relationship is no different. 
 
It's best to communicate openly about what you want rather than lie to avoid an argument, as it's just delaying the inevitable5
 
Even little white lies - like pretending to enjoy the same music or movies - could lead to huge regrets if you end up forced to spend years putting up with something you hate.


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1 tempting wgAzd4     
a.诱人的, 吸引人的
参考例句:
  • It is tempting to idealize the past. 人都爱把过去的日子说得那么美好。
  • It was a tempting offer. 这是个诱人的提议。
2 honeymoon ucnxc     
n.蜜月(假期);vi.度蜜月
参考例句:
  • While on honeymoon in Bali,she learned to scuba dive.她在巴厘岛度蜜月时学会了带水肺潜水。
  • The happy pair are leaving for their honeymoon.这幸福的一对就要去度蜜月了。
3 knell Bxry1     
n.丧钟声;v.敲丧钟
参考例句:
  • That is the death knell of the British Empire.这是不列颠帝国的丧钟。
  • At first he thought it was a death knell.起初,他以为是死亡的丧钟敲响了。
4 Founder wigxF     
n.创始者,缔造者
参考例句:
  • He was extolled as the founder of their Florentine school.他被称颂为佛罗伦萨画派的鼻祖。
  • According to the old tradition,Romulus was the founder of Rome.按照古老的传说,罗穆卢斯是古罗马的建国者。
5 inevitable 5xcyq     
adj.不可避免的,必然发生的
参考例句:
  • Mary was wearing her inevitable large hat.玛丽戴着她总是戴的那顶大帽子。
  • The defeat had inevitable consequences for British policy.战败对英国政策不可避免地产生了影响。
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