你会和比你教育程度低的人恋爱吗?
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Quora网友提问:“你会和比你教育程度低的人恋爱吗?”一起来看看国外网友们的高赞回答。
 
I would but it has tended not to work out well for various reasons.
我会的,但由于种种原因,结果往往不太好。
 
Also, education is a huge deal in my family. Everyone has advanced degrees and the women in my family are really judgmental about whom I date.
而且教育在我家里是件大事,家人都受过高等教育,家里的女性成员对我约会的对象都很挑剔。
 
But more to my preferences. I'm just really attracted to a woman who is smart, well-read and educated. I find intelligence incredibly attractive. Some might say that means I'm a sapiosexual. But I refuse to use that term.
但更多的是因为我的喜好,我真的喜欢聪明、博学、受过良好教育的女孩。我感觉智慧真的超有吸引力,有些人会说这意味着我是个智性恋,但我不喜欢用这个词。
 
Yes and I have. I didn't just date one, I married one.
是的,我已经爱上一个了。我不仅和这样的人恋爱了,而且结婚了。
 
I have under graduate degrees in physics and computer science, and a graduate degree in computer science. My husband has an under graduate degree in philosophy.
我有物理学和计算机科学学士学位、计算机科学研究生学位,我丈夫有心理学学士学位。
 
But that is just on paper. My husband chose a life long path of self education early on since his childhood.
但那只是一纸学历,我丈夫早在童年时起就选择了自学的人生之路。
 
He wrote cloud enabled1 apps without taking a single programming class in his life.
他从未上过一节编程课就会写云计算应用程序。
 
He is a software UX architect without taking a single design class in his life.
他从未上过一节设计课就成为了一名软件用户体验架构师。
 
It depends on what you mean by “less educated.”
这要取决于你如何定义“教育程度更低”。
 
I have an MA. My husband has an associates degree. By that standard, he's less educated.
我有文学硕士学位,我丈夫是大专学历,按教育程度来看他学历更低。
 
However, we've been married 17 years and the education difference has never been any kind of issue.
然而我们结婚17年了,教育上的差异根本不是问题。
 
In fact, it's pretty clear that his degree has been more practically2 useful.
其实很明显他的学历更有实际用处。
 
Would I date someone with less intellectual3 curiosity4 than me?
我会和求知欲不如我的人恋爱吗?
 
Probably not, because I think once that was established, we'd find out we had little in common to sustain5 a relationship beyond a friendship.
可能不会,因为我认为一旦建立了这种关系,我们就会发现除了友谊之外,我们几乎没有共同点来维持关系。
 
It's not that I'd think less of them.
这不是我鄙视他们。
 
These are just the kind of judgments6 we make when sorting out what kind of relationships we want with people.
这只是我们在确定和别人保持什么关系时会做出的判断。


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1 enabled a10311459433adf322f2590a4987c423     
adj.激活的v.使能够,提供做…的权利[措施]( enable的过去式和过去分词 );使可能
参考例句:
  • His photographic memory enabled him to tuck away yards of facts. 他过目不忘的记忆力使他能记下大量事实。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • Long practice enabled that American to speak fluent Chinese. 长期的练习使得那个美国人能讲一口流利的汉语。 来自《简明英汉词典》
2 practically HPjxb     
adv.差不多;几乎;实际地,从实际角度
参考例句:
  • He solved the problem very practically.他很实事求是地解决了这个问题。
  • She's practically always late for school.她上学几乎总是迟到。
3 intellectual O5Nxi     
n.知识分子;adj.智力的,理智的,有理解力的
参考例句:
  • Thinking is an intellectual process.思维是一个智力活动过程。
  • Chess is a highly intellectual game.象棋是需用高度智力的运动项目。
4 curiosity ByGxj     
n.好奇心,新奇的事物,珍品
参考例句:
  • He gave in to curiosity and opened my letter.他抑制不住好奇心,拆开了我的信。
  • The children are dying of curiosity to see what's in the parcel.孩子们出于好奇,迫不及待地想看看包裹中是什么东西。
5 sustain 1FqyS     
vt.保持,供养,维持,支持,经受
参考例句:
  • During the war we had just enough food to sustain us.战争期间,我们的食物仅够维持生活。
  • These four posts sustain the entire building.这四根柱子支撑着整座建筑物。
6 judgments 2a483d435ecb48acb69a6f4c4dd1a836     
判断( judgment的名词复数 ); 鉴定; 评价; 审判
参考例句:
  • A peculiar austerity marked his judgments of modern life. 他对现代生活的批评带着一种特殊的苛刻。
  • He is swift with his judgments. 他判断迅速。
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