1. Clothes that fit.

合身的衣服。

 

A few of us are gifted with dimensions that allow us to purchase straight off the rack. But most men (myself included) absolutely need to have custom-fitted clothing. Do this. Cut the number of clothes you buy in half. And double what you spend on each item. You will look great and feel great when your clothes fit perfectly¹.

我们中的少数人是天生衣架子，能够直接买现成的衣服，但是大部分人（包括我自己）十分需要穿量身定做的衣服。这样做吧，把你要买的衣服数量减半，然后每件衣服花双倍的价格。当你穿着超级合身的衣服时，你看起来会很棒，自己感觉也很棒。

 

2. Assume everyone likes you.

假定每个人都喜欢你。

 

Take the lead when meeting people. Pretend you are a host or that you have the responsibility to help others enjoy themselves in a conversation. Most people are awkward or nervous in social situations, so if you take the pressure off of them, they'll love you for it and see you as more attractive.

在和别人聚会的时候占据主动，假装你是主人或是你有责任帮助他人在谈话中觉得尽兴。大部分人在社交场合会笨手笨脚或是紧张，所以如果你让他们减轻压力，他们就会因此喜欢你，觉得你很迷人。

 

3. Find a friend who always looks sharp. Ask them for tips for you.

去找看起来总是很时髦的朋友，向他们讨教技巧。

 

4. Believe you are handsome. Confidence is attractive.

相信自己很吸引人，有自信就是吸引人。

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