爱如断臂
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"But what if I break my arm again?" my five year-old daughter asked, her lower lip trembling. I knelt holding onto her bike and looked her right in the eyes. I knew how much she wanted to learn to ride. How often she felt left out when her friends pedaled1 by our house. Yet ever since she’d fallen off her bike and broken her arm, she’d been afraid.

"Oh honey," I said. "I don’t think you’ll break another arm."

"But I could, couldn’t I?”

"Yes,” I admitted, and found myself struggling for the right thing to say. At times like this, I wished I had a partner to turn to. Someone who might help find the right words to make my little girl’s problems disappear. But after a disastrous2 marriage and a painful divorce, I’d welcomed the hardships of being a single parent and had been adamant3 in telling anyone who tried to fix me up that I was terminally single.

"I don’t think I want to ride,” she said and got off her bike.

We walked away and sat down beside a tree.

"Don’t you want to ride with your friends?” I asked.

"And I thought you were hoping to start riding your bike to school next year,” I added.

"I was,” she said, her voice almost a quiver4.

"You know, hon,” I said. "Most everything you do comes with risks. You could get a broken arm in a car wreck5 and then be afraid to ever ride in a car again. You could break your arm jumping rope. You could break your arm at gymnastics. Do you want to stop going to gymnastics?”

"No,” she said. And with a determined6 spirit, she stood up and agreed to try again. I held on to the back of her bike until she found the courage to say, "Let’s go!”

I spent the rest of the afternoon at the park watching a very brave little girl overcome a fear, and congratulating myself for being a self-sufficient single parent.

As we walked home, pushing the bike as we made our way along the sidewalk, she asked me about a conversation she’d overheard7 me having with my mother the night before.

"Why were you and grandma arguing last night?”

My mother was one of the many people who constantly tried to fix me up. How many times had I told her "no" to meeting the Mr. Perfect she picked out for me. She just knew Steve was the man for me.

"It’s nothing,” I told her.

She shrugged8. "Grandma said she just wanted you to find someone to love.”

"What grandma wants is for some guy to break my heart again,” I snapped9, angry that my mother had said anything about this to my daughter.

"But Mom.”

"You’re too young to understand,” I told her.

She was quiet for the next few minutes. Then she looked up and in a small voice gave me something to think about.

"So I guess love isn’t like a broken arm.”

Unable to answer, we walked the rest of the way in silence. When I got home, I called my mother and scolded her for talking about this to my daughter. Then I did what I’d seen my brave little girl do that very afternoon. I let go and agreed to meet Steve.

Steve was the man for me. We married less than a year later. It turned out mother and my daughter were right.



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1 pedaled cf570c9c2cdf9b44332328334780988b     
vt.& vi.踩自行车的踏板(pedal的过去式与过去分词形式)
参考例句:
  • She pedaled her bicycle slowly up the hill. 她骑自行车慢慢上山。 来自《现代英汉综合大词典》
  • With these instructions, he straddled his bike once again and pedaled off. 小伙子在她身后跨上车子,边说边飞快地骑跑了。 来自汉英文学 - 散文英译
2 disastrous 2ujx0     
adj.灾难性的,造成灾害的;极坏的,很糟的
参考例句:
  • The heavy rainstorm caused a disastrous flood.暴雨成灾。
  • Her investment had disastrous consequences.She lost everything she owned.她的投资结果很惨,血本无归。
3 adamant FywzQ     
adj.坚硬的,固执的
参考例句:
  • We are adamant on the building of a well-off society.在建设小康社会这一点上,我们是坚定不移的。
  • Veronica was quite adamant that they should stay on.维罗妮卡坚信他们必须继续留下去。
4 quiver b01zW     
vi.颤抖,抖动;n.颤抖,抖动,颤声
参考例句:
  • Can you feel a quiver of her hands? 你感觉到她的手在发抖吗?
  • There was a slight quiver in his voice as he spoke.他说话时声音有些颤抖。
5 wreck QMjzE     
n.失事,遇难;沉船;vt.(船等)失事,遇难
参考例句:
  • Weather may have been a factor in the wreck.天气可能是造成这次失事的原因之一。
  • No one can wreck the friendship between us.没有人能够破坏我们之间的友谊。
6 determined duszmP     
adj.坚定的;有决心的
参考例句:
  • I have determined on going to Tibet after graduation.我已决定毕业后去西藏。
  • He determined to view the rooms behind the office.他决定查看一下办公室后面的房间。
7 overheard overheard     
adj. 串音的, 偶而听到的 动词overhear的过去式和过去分词形式
参考例句:
  • We talked quietly so as not to be overheard. 我们低声交谈,以免别人听到。
  • I told Lucy the news under my breath, but Joyce overheard me. 我低声地把这个消息告诉露西,可还是被乔伊斯听到了。
8 shrugged 497904474a48f991a3d1961b0476ebce     
vt.耸肩(shrug的过去式与过去分词形式)
参考例句:
  • Sam shrugged and said nothing. 萨姆耸耸肩膀,什么也没说。
  • She shrugged, feigning nonchalance. 她耸耸肩,装出一副无所谓的样子。 来自《简明英汉词典》
9 snapped 049d092795475d08a3fcd2d16ef4b519     
v.猛地咬住( snap的过去式和过去分词 );(使某物)发出尖厉声音地突然断裂[打开,关闭];厉声地说;拍照
参考例句:
  • The wind had snapped the tree in two. 风把树喀嚓一声刮断了。
  • He lost his temper and snapped irritably at the children. 他发火了,暴躁地斥责孩子们。 来自《简明英汉词典》
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